Cyberbullying is getting advanced, and the lingering question remains whether the kids, the most vulnerable group of all, are safe. It is not a big buzzword, it can begin with one message. A small joke. A teasing comment. A meme. At first, it may seem silly or even funny. But it can quickly turn into something hurtful.
Cyberbullying means using phones, computers, or the internet to harm someone. This could be through mean words, spreading lies, sharing photos, or leaving someone out on purpose.
But now, it is not just name-calling or teasing. Bullies use fake accounts. They send messages from apps that delete themselves. Some even change photos to embarrass someone. It is sneaky, fast, and spreads far. Most times, the victim does not know who is behind it. That makes it harder to stop.
Kids spend a lot of time online: studying, playing games, or talking to friends. That is normal. But it also makes them easy to reach. They are still growing. They want friends. They want to fit in. So when someone says something mean, it can hurt more than we think.
Some children do not tell their parents. They may be scared or shy. They may think no one will believe them. Or they may not want their phone taken away. So they stay silent. As guardians, we must notice the small signs. A quiet dinner. A phone, hidden under the pillow. Sudden tears without reason. These are not “just moods.” Something could be wrong.
You do not need to be a tech expert. You just need to stay close to your child. Here are some things that really help:
Ask them how their day was, both in school and online. Let them feel safe to tell you things. Do not monger fear in them, but create a safe space where they can talk without hesitation.
Ask what apps they use. Let them show you how those apps work. Try them together. Look for signs of hiding or reluctance to show something. Instead of scolding right away, subtly build confidence in them so that they open up.
Decide on screen time as a team, not as a punishment, but as a habit. Include time away from screens: walks, books, or games. Schedule quality time with your child weekly. Share your feelings with them so that they can connect with you, and don’t shy away from seeking help if anything is bothering them.
If your child seems worried, sad, or scared after being on the phone, ask gently. Do not ignore it. Make them comfortable and let them know that you are there for them and they do not need to go through anything alone.
Use Parental control apps like Norton Family, Net Nanny, Kids Place, etc., to monitor your children’s digital activity, screen time, app usage, website, and location tracking. Don’t make them feel you are spying. Open, honest talks are key to building trust.
If your child is hurt or scared, speak to a teacher or a school counselor. Some tech services offer alerts and tips, too. It is okay to reach out.
Cyberbullying is real. It is quiet. It hides behind screens. But it can hurt deeply. Our children need more than devices. They need guidance, love, and time. They need someone who listens. Someone who believes them.
We can not stop the internet, but we can stand beside our kids. We can teach them how to stay safe and speak up. Let us stay one step ahead. Not by spying, but by staying involved, with heart, patience, and care.
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